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Rockin' the Holiday!!
Merry Christmas to everyone!! I hope everyone is doing well. I'm doing pretty good. So far my holidays haven't exactly been that exciting but great at the same time. It's good to see everyone again after so much time apart. I think that's my fave part of the holidays..everyone comes home ane we kinda just sit around and catch up. It's good. I'm such a homegirl. Yesterday I went back to Kitchener with Jon to keep him company for the night because he wrote his last exam today. So that was a lot of fun. And then Kk came to kitchener and we all spent the afternoon shopping. So good seeing Kk again. Hopefully the weeks picks up. Hard to believe that Christmas is on Saturday. Somehow it doesn't feel like it. Anyway. I have nothing else to ramble on about. Enjoy your holidays all. Much love and happieness to each....

Tuesday, December 21, 2004

I came, I saw and I conquered...
My last entry was a harsh reality. One that happened but didn't so much happen at the same time. I thought I had to make a choice. It was either all or nothing. And I picked all. But I'm pretty positive I didn't get it all. There's a piece missing. Something has changed, because I can feel it. And that's not what I wanted. I don't want there to be this distant silence. Although close, it's still so far out there. What happened? Can one night change the future. Is there a future. Maybe I'm just trying to hard. Maybe I shouldn't try at all. Each day is better than the last, but with feeling the change, it's all going to cause the space to grow into a huge void. I don't want that to happen. But I can't stop it or you. You are in control. What you want to happen next, it soley up to you. I hope you know that I'm always going to be here for you whenever you need me. Please don't forget that. I'll use a common line, things have changed. As in me... Perhaps you don't believe me, and if you don't. Hopefully this will help.

So here I am, letting go, for everyone to read. It's over. No more. I can't. It's only hurting me, and ruining everything else. There's nothing to hold on to. There wasn't even possibility. I wanted what I couldn't have. And that wasn't fair, and I truly am deeply sorry for all the frustration I have caused you. I'm not always an easy person to deal with. And I have huge problems not expressing my emotions. Patience I guess. So tomorrow is another day and yet a new day. Because all my hopes, dreams and aspirations have flown away, and tomorrow I make news ones. Thank you for being in my life. For everything that you've done for me. You're best, couldn't have asked for better. I love you for you are, who you were and who you will be. Don't give up on what you want, you'll get it...in time. Thank you...

Your Friend, always and forever...Melissa*

Sunday, December 12, 2004

Close Yet Far
Alright so this past weekend was quite the emotion roller coaster ride. And slightly unexpected but also bound to happen sooner or later. Considering I've been thinking about for awhile now. Slowly I'm fading and letting ppl walk all over me. I need to stand up for myself and I need to change some major aspects of my life. I'm greatly misunderstood and on the other hand greatly ignored. It's almost like I'm invisible in my own friendships. Maybe I should stop trying. You can't make everything. Or maybe it's that I expect way too much out of ppl. But shouldn't it be balanced. If I see that you're not up to par, I'm going to ask you what's wrong. But when I'm having a shitty day, it's like the whole world is ignoring. It's sad that you're mom knows somethings up and asks before anyone else does.

Spent a lot of friday night, crying. So much fun...NOT! I haven't cried like that in awhile. Maybe I needed a good cry, but the situation wasn't worth crying for. And that's something I plan on changing. Because my postion, needs to be transferred. It's a give and take deal. I'm giving and everyone's a takin'...but shouldn't I be receiving something in return as well. Funny, that doesn't seem to be happening. I'm not sure if I can keep on giving. It doesn't seem fair to me, at all. There's more to your life than yourself and your well being. So get off your high horse and wake up to the real world, the one that's walking away from you...each and everyday. Stop ignoring and realize that there's more to life...and more to your friendship...I'm sick of picking up the pieces, who's supposed to pick up mine?

Let me tell you this, everyday you make it easier and easier to disappear...thank you

Tuesday, December 7, 2004

Tis The Season!!
Wow, I've been slightly neglecting my pita. Not that it counts for a hufe loss, I know that not many read it, and if so, hardly anyone comments. Which in away could be a good thing because if ya got something nasty to say to me, say it to my face, not for all my readers to read. So Christmas is fastly approaching and I'm super excited!! Everyone comes home at Christmas..which is AWESOME!! I so look forward to seeing everyone!! Some I miss more than others, but that's just how the cookie crumbles can't be close with everyone. Found out that I may be going to Jamaica for my March Break, but not during my march break aka reading week. Which is pretty cool. I'm very excited considering I am half jamaican. My nephew is growing big and ever so cute each day. I love him to pieces. Just wanna take him home with me. But really, not exactly possible. School's going alright with me, not done yet. One more semester to go and then I'm off to the Real World which is a very scary thought. I'm not lookin forward to that aspect..anyway. Thats all for now..love to all...

Monday, November 22, 2004

Reality Check
Well ppl, it's been a slight while since I graced you with a pita entry. The only reason it's been a while is because my last entry was a tad bit on the depressing side and I needed to get over that. My depression has slightly left, for now that is. It always comes back to haunt me, but there are days when I can actually push it aside before it pushes me over. Things with me are up down as usual. I've been kind of lonely lately, I'm kind of getting sick of being alone. But it's not like I've found someone either. I'm sure it's just a phase and it'll pass, or it won't and I'll just keep pushing it further and further down until eventually I'll explode. Now won't that be not so nice.

I've made a lot of changes in my life lately, almost like little life decisions. Such as, the friends I keep and hang out with. If you can't take my heat, what were thinking when you said we were friends? If you're going to seek revenge on me, for a reason I can't even understand. Seriously, we're not meant to be friends. And that's when I go to my msn list and block and delete you. Sounds not so nice I know. But for once, it wasn't something I started. Vengence is not a factor I appreciate. I'm not a person to be screwed with, so don't even bother trying.

Sometimes reality is a kick in the ass, but maybe it's a kick you deserve

Wednesday, November 10, 2004

Can you still feel...I can't...
Although this past weekend in North Bay was so much fun, and a total blast hanging out with Jo, Lisa and Tee again. I had an awesome time and wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. But the this past weekend also reminded of how incredibly alone I am. I feel so depressed, so helpless, you name it..I pretty much feel it. I just can't deal with any of this anymore, I'm sick of it. I thought I had everything under control. But I lied, I think I lie to myself and others everytime. I can't replace what you want. And you can't do the same for me. I just feel like I'm not needed anymore. We've all gone our separate places, and made our seperate lives. When we come home, it's all the same...but when we leave, everything is different. I lead a life like that. Sometimes I feel like 2 people. The person I am to my friends and the person I'm not to my family. Is it time to set up and mould the 2 me's? Umm, I think not. But maybe once I have them both under control. On monday night I dreamt about the day my dad died. Every single second, I relived. Which brought back a hell of a lot emotions, most of which I can't deal with...but hey..here they are. Leaving me to suffer and cry each day away. Hoping and praying that the next night, the dream will be different. There is something I wish of my friends, I want you to cherish each and every moment spent with your family. No matter how much you think your parents may be wrecking your life, or how much your sibling may annoy you. You don't know when the time could be cut short. When they may not be there for you anymore. And then you'll realize how much you have messed up your own life. Your family loves you, hence why they make rules, they annoy you, embarass you, piss you off, anything a long those lines. Treasure those moments, because you don't want to end up like me, wishing for what I can never have again. So if you notice that when you complain about your family, I prolly will appear to be listening, but really inside screaming..."at least you have a full one." Count yourself extremly lucky. Sunday, Monday and today have been pretty shitty. I just seemed to be dragging myself here and there. It's like I don't even care anymore, I'm sick everything...the pressure, the lonliness, the longing and the frustration. All of which no one understands because we are all different. Be thankful for a life, not like mine, and I'll be thankful for life not like yours...because I have no idea what you might deal with. My petty problems could be nothing..and to some my petty life is nothing. Oh to be visible....and not depressed and dying on the inside. What different life that could be...

Tuesday, November 2, 2004

Jo
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Lisa
Tee

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