This is a blog for brides to be like us. We know who we are. This is where we will share wedding ideas, tips and whathaveyous. OOh we can't wait getting married, so please pardon our utmost euphoria. :) Created by Diah @ Etrangle using Adobe Photoshop Version 7.0. Special thanks to Getty Images. online hits. ::Salinna ::Tuesday, February 15, 2005 Hi!!! This is so so so wonderfullll!!! Blog specially for all the brides to be. Thank you so much Diah :) Ok, I refer to the "heels...covered-pointed preferably" post, I bought mine in gold from Angsana. Banyak kasut pengantin kat sana. And I only paid RM60. But as for the heels, I think abt 2" high. And I'm still thinking whether to get a higher one in gold, open toe. I'm abt 1.6 whereas my fiance 1.8. So gals, do u think I should get a higher pair of heels??? Oh btw, my wedding will be in June 2005. I engaged Fatimah Mohsin. I hope she'll do a good job. And I'm so excited over the whole thing!!! Ok gals, see ya around :) *panjang betul aku berbual* | ::.:: nani ::.newbie::.bridetobe in 2 years time::. ::Tuesday, February 15, 2005 hello bridestobe!!! im new here.. thanks to Diah, who is a real sweetie, im here to share and 'kapur' some tips from all of u..hehe. Anyway, my wedding will be in 2006. But now, i have already signed up for KRT (kursus rumahtangga in long form,heh). It'll start in March, at Marine Parade CC. Anyone here gng to be there too? Some say its too early for us to go for the kursus since our wedding will be in another err.. 2 years time. But we thk dat lagi cepat habis, lagi bagus so that we can concentrate on other things. What say you? I am ofcoz gng to the pameran dis saturday with another bridetobe..a fren of mine, ernie.. not gng to put any deposits though..only looking ard, 'kapur'ing their ideas, and sinking down the fact dat we're gng to get married also soon..lol! By the way, talking abt Mona J, my guru ngaji's son's (abg Faizal) wedding last year, took Mona J's kendarats.. and they are all dressed mcm keje kat hotel banquet like dat. Very nicely and smartly dressed. And I must say, abg Faizal's wedding decor, which is by Istana Weddings, was really really superb!!! I simply fell in love with their maroon and white decor... Now, now... i cant decide if i shall go all white/cream decor or all purple decor... hmmmphhh.... *fickled* | ::mona j ::Tuesday, February 15, 2005 good morning, beautiful ladies!!! eh, anyone tried mona j? was looking at their outfit & i thought ok, lah, gak...but don't know whether it might look nice. anyway, i terperasan an advert by maria j. there was this bride who wore blue (she's a muslimah bride) and i thought i saw a white t-shirt (long-sleeved) beneath her blue outfit. and that kinda give me an idea. you know all those "jarang" outfits as shown in adverts? i thought why not by those "this fashion" punya skin-tight t-shirts (kalau nak, yang skin-coloured) and wear 'em underneath the translucent outfits? i saw waheeda doing the same for her concerts and i thought that was a brilliant idea. i guess, i better try it out for raya first. hehhe... :mahd: | ::Bride-to-be in 3 years ::Tuesday, February 15, 2005 Hi. The name's Tuty. i feel inferior pulak. since most or all of you are bride-to-be. heh. Tuty baru fiancee-to-be. So wedding will not take place sometime soon. But thanks anyway for giving me access to this site.. Boleh tgk camne planning goes. i'm a kancheong-spider person so early planning + execution is important. yup.. also to prevent the unforeseen circumstances. the preparation for the tunang is already giving me headaches. apa ntah lagi the wedding. *shudders* So hopefully, with the help of bride-to-be friends here, i will keep myself together. oh, maybe get a bit of tips here and there. wat to do and wat not to do.. ahh.. oh, anyone who needs a freelance wedding photographer.. i have a fren @ http://see.nourza.net. as for now, she do not have any online pictures of wedding but it's in the making. so will updates you brides when the link is up and running. =) one question... my parents and my relatives selalu cakap.. tunang jgn lama lama... byk cobaan nya... alam pertunangan tak sama.. it's not that i dun believe them... it's juz that when they say such things, i get scared. any tips or advices for this tunangan period? | ::knock knock ::Tuesday, February 15, 2005 wow.. tis is so exciting. Sharing a blog with all the brides to be. bestnye!! macam kejakunan gitu kan. aniway im anissa! Just got engaged december 2004 & insyallah awaiting marital bliss tis coming December! yes december! same like u rite Diah!! hopefully not on the same date.. No preparation had been done for me as yet. I myself dun noe wat to do, where to start first. Would be going for kursus in April only but my fiancee prefer the 'express' one. Only 3-4 hours compared to the normal one. But very expensive seh. 0 per couple. But alot of my frens recomended me to go for the normal one coz of some of the interesting topic tat would arise. the sleepyhead would tibe-tiba bangun when it come to the interesting topic. LOL. Also lookin forward for my very very first trip to Pameran Pengantin tis coming weekend. Hope to know u gals better ya! | ::Newbie Here!! ::Monday, February 14, 2005 Hello there lovely brides-to-be. Great idea on the blog!! Syafa, urs pun a Sept wedding ye? Same as mine!! :) So far we have only booked our bridal package with Maria J. My mom has already done her research on the tukang masak, deco and stuff.. That one I let her to decide cos benda2 ni semua I tak reti.. Cuma deco color I get to choose lah.. Hehhehehe.. ;P Other den that, we have accomplised very little.. Nasib baik khusus dah get over and done with! Nak prepare siang2, nanti kena label kiasu.. but I hate the thot of last minute preparation tat might led to unforseen circumstances! Ni pun I was thinking of meeting with a free lance photographer to look at his portfolio. He did my cuz wedding in June last yr and I'm kinda interested in his wk. Okie.. I'm not complaining here but I have a qn to ask you guys. Has this ever happen to you? Let's have this senario - ur choosing a ring for him and asked his opinion. "Abg.. U like this ring? Ok tak?" and he replied "Sembaranglah Ayang.. Up to you.." and that senario repeats itself for other wedding decision moment.. How would u react? Would u be happy that he gives you the freedom to make that decision or upset cos it seems that he cant be bothered in making that decision with you? For me, I used to be upset cos in my impression he cant be bothered with the wedding prep and I even kicked a fuss abt it! In the end I yg kena prep talk frm him.. Padan muka aku.. Dah skarang I dah insaf.. Hehehe.. Kalau dier cakap "sembarang.." I pun ape lagi.. "Yabadabadooo!!!!!" :D ::.Ayu.:: | ::A Pious Wife ::Monday, February 14, 2005 I was reading a book my elder sister presented to me for my 21st bday, and i thought i'd share this:- " Allah says in Surah Ar Roum:- " And from His signs is that He has created spouses for you from your own species so that you may find solace with her and He has placed love and mercy between you. There are certainly signs in this for people who contemplate" - Chapter 30: verse 21, Holy Quran. This solace and mutual love underpines the happiness and stability of a family and oils the wheels of civilisation. The woman is therefore the cradle of comfort for her husband. It is with her that he may satisfy his passions and stay away from sin so that his chastity may remain untainted. A pious wife is the greatest bounty any man can have and nothing can be more valuable and special than her. She is there to love, to be loved and to care for her husband. When a man returns tired and frustrated after a hard day at work, he will forget all his fatigue and worries when he is welcomed home by a smiling and charming wife. A good wife gives a man vigour and enthusiasm and a few words from her are more revitalising than glucose and vitamins. The married couple ease the worries and concerns of each other by displaying mutual compassion. In this manner, they make life pleasant for each other. May Allah make every bride the source of comfort for her husband. Ameen." - extracted from "Gift to a Bride (Tohfa-e-Dulhan)" compiled by M.H.A. Majeed. anyway, this wedding blog thing is SOOO COOL! ::.aysha.:: | ::another newbie ::Monday, February 14, 2005 hello ppl...another new person here....the name's syafa...came across the "offer' in diah's blog n immed emailed her.heheheh...im still kinda slack wif my wedding preps..it's in september buttt..a lot of things still not done yet..heheh..it's mostly cos i dun really noe wat's out there...looked thru all the magazines n stuff but they're pretty useless not much info...so i really can't wait for the expo...should be going there on 18 feb...and most prob the weekend... ok juz realised im blabbering...looking forward to getting to noe u gals.. cheeriossss.... salut, syafa :)) | ::Excited Diah! ::Monday, February 14, 2005 Wow, I think so too Tya. This might just be the first ever wedding blog! So girls, keep on updating... I'm really loving it so far And oh, more new frens will be joining us.. So welcome welcome!! :) | ::Day 2...1 to Go ::Monday, February 14, 2005 Day 2 of kursus done. Kinda boring if you ask me but no less informative. One speaker failed to hold the attention of the audience. Perhaps because she was less funny and her approach was well...entah, eh, tak tau camne nak cakap But, ok, lah everything's been going smoothly, alhamdulillah. We decided to select another date coz everything was getting out of hand and both of us felt like we were caught in a tsunami of events! So, we decided to hang on to he reins and this time held it FAST! So...let's see how it goes. Surinawati aka rafrin...yeapz, me a member of perkahwinan.com. :) just me, mahd!!! PS: i'm so into white wedding!!! | ::heels...covered-pointed preferably.. ::Sunday, February 13, 2005 in the midst of me jugglin my werk and tuition, i m having a hard time looking for my bridal shoes...the bridal package that i took doesn't come wif shoes...so the mak andam suggest that i look for covered-pointed heels for a clean look to go wif my bridal outfits..& she requested for 2;both gold & silver. the thing is that i can't seem to find any!!!i even thought of getting an open-toe heels to match my bridal outfits so at the same time,i cn expose my hennaEd-toes... so guys,if u happen to noe where i cn get them...leave ur msg in our tagboard okies...!!! thanks...by the way i took Aidah Bridal for my mak andam. we hv 3 bajuS for sanding,3 for studio n 1 for nikah... insya-allah wil extend the invites to u guys, aight | ::Wo-wo-wo!! ::Sunday, February 13, 2005 Woh!!!! i saw my colleagues picture in the D'Shootzstudio outdr gallery... so... cool. Member next mth dah nak gif birth to a boy!! Yay! Happy for her.. Anyway, the photo shoots cool ah.. Diah, u taking tis D'shootzstudio kan? Hw much eh?? | ::<< Interesting Website >> ::Sunday, February 13, 2005 Hey ladies.. or rather Brides-to-be.. Check out this website as recommended by a fren of mine>>>> http://www.urusanpengantin.com/ourservices.htm Happy Browsing!!! =D Regards, Mya | ::~lin~ ::Sunday, February 13, 2005 | :: ::Sunday, February 13, 2005 hi there everyb0dy..!!!eh,eh..salah...*ehem..ehem* bridestobe...orite...tis is Lin here...i'm kinda new to tis blog...was browsing diah's p.blog n came across tis offer...so i cpt cpt grab!!! emmmm...to update n tell abit of myself...i am getting hitch tis march...12 is the exact date...however wil sanding in june wif my sister...engaged for a year plus...am 22++years... wil try n c whether or nt i hv the capability to post my engagement pic okies... | ::click click! ::Saturday, February 12, 2005 hey ya! hi to every single bride-to-be out there! hope diah's baby here (this very first local bride-to-be blog!) is gona be a platform for exchanging/sharing of ideas/emotions/views/wat-have-yous! so for those bride-to-bes looking for photographers for that all most important event of your life, feel free to browse thru these linkies ya! of coz i've made my choice! tee hee! so y not make yrs today?! Theme Photopgraphy Poise Photography A Picture Book Wedding The Pond D'Shootz happy browsing! :) ::Tya:: | ::Wedding Hairdos ::Saturday, February 12, 2005 And oh, may I present to you some really nice hairdos.. Of course, these hairdos are only for those of you who are not wearing the tudung, and will be wearing the ooh so white wedding gown on your big day. :) I think they are pretty neat! Love, Diah | ::Dais... ::Saturday, February 12, 2005 Ello aunties.. I have already put up these dais pictures in my blog before, but heck I am going to share them with those of you who have not seen them before. Maner la tau, you gorgeous babes desperately need ideas for your pelamins. Lawar tak? Love, Diah | ::Hi..!! Im new here!! ::Saturday, February 12, 2005 Hello minah-minaz.. Mya sini.. i may nt be frm ur "kursus" but im one of the bride to be!! hehehe! soo... excited la... so... can introduce tak u all?? =D world peace!! | ::HOW TO ADD A PICTURE ::Friday, February 11, 2005 Ok, this entry is in answer to Cik Sarinawati kita and anyone else who wants to know how to go about adding pictures in your entries for us to see. :) First and foremost, you must go to http://photobucket.com and sign up. Then bila dah sign up, you log in to photobucket with your chosen username and password. Then you click on 'Browse' and browse for your pictures. Then click 'Submit'to upload your picture. Then your picture will appear below the photobucket page. Then you copy the url you see next to 'tag'. The url looks something like this [img src="http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v292/bridestone/ahahar.gif"] Then log in to pitas. Then paste the url you have copied from photobucket into 'Add an entry'(the same page where you created your entries just now) Then click 'Done' Then go to our blog, and click 'Refresh'. You will see the pictures. :) Try la! ::Diah:: | ::R@sed@h ::Friday, February 11, 2005 ooops!!!@loh@ is me R@SED@H | ::@loh@ ::Friday, February 11, 2005 Amboi!!panjangnya tips but is useful. btw u all gah buat apa? Hari ni i sibuk sikit banyak pax. me not sure yet whether me goin to the expo or not, but if i'm goin i'll inform u guys. | ::perkahwinan.com (Sarinawati) ::Friday, February 11, 2005 Hi bridestobe! Have you ever heard of a website, perkahwinan.com ? You can find loads of information abt wedding preparation n other hot stuffs ! Mind asking any of you here a member of perkahwinan.com ? Anyone here who is a member, can PM me at rafrin . Syukran. | ::Nasihat Utk Wanita ::Friday, February 11, 2005 1. Pertama urusan yang ditanyakan pada hari akhirat nanti ialah mengenai solat dan mengenai urusan suaminya (apakah ia menjalankan kewajibannya atau tidak). 2. Apabila lari wanita dari rumah suaminya tidak diterima solatnya sehingga kembali ia dan menghulurkan tangannya kepada suaminya (meminta ampun). 3. Mana-mana perempuan yang memakai bau-bauan kemudian ia keluar melintasi kaum lelaki ajnabi agar mereka tercium bau harumnya maka dia adalah perempuan zina dan tiap-tiap mata yang memandang itu adalah zina. 4. Sebaik-baik wanita ialah tinggal di rumah, tidak keluar kecuali atas urusan yang mustahak. Wanita yang keluar rumah akan dipesonakan oleh iblis. Sabna Nabi s. a. w. : Perempuan itu aurat, maka apabila ia keluar mendongak syaitan memandang akan dia. 5. Haram bagi wanita melihat lelaki sebagaimana lelaki haram melihat wanitayang halal nikah kecuali dalam urusan menuntut ilmu dan berjual beli). 6. Diriwayatkan bahawa pada suatu hari ketika Rasulullah s. a. w. bersama isteri-isterinya (Ummu Salamah r. ha. dan Maimunah r. ha.), datang seorang sahabat yang buta matanya (Ibnu Maktum) Rasulullah s. a. w. menyuruh isteri-isterinya masuk ke dalam. Bertanya Ummu Salamah, "Bukankah orang itutidak dapat melihat kami, Ya Rasulullah ?" Rasulullah s. a. w. menjawab,"Bukankah kamu dapat melihatnya." 7. Perempuan yang melabuhkan pakaian dalam keadaan berhias (bukan untuk suami dan mahramnya) adalah seumpama gelap-gelita pada hari Qiamat tiada Nur baginya. 8. Mana-mana wanita yang bermasam muka menyebabkan tersinggung suaminya, maka wanita itu dimurkai Allah sehingga ia bermanis muka dan tersenyum mesra pada suaminya. 9. Tidak boleh seorang isteri mengerjakan puasa sunat kalau suaminya ada dirumah serta tidak seizinnya dan tidak boleh memasukkan seseorang lelaki ke rumahnya dengan tidak seizin suaminya. 10. Hendaklah isteri berpuas hati (redha) dengan suaminya yang telah dijodohkan oleh Allah, samada miskin atau kaya. 11. Perempuan tidak berhak keluar dari rumahnya melainkan jika terpaksa (kerana sesuatu urusan yang mustahak) dan ia juga tidak berhak melalui jalan lalu lalang melainkan ditepi-tepinya. 12. Apabila memanggil lelaki akan isterinya ke tempat tidur tetapi ditolaknya hingga marahlah suaminya, akan tidurlah wanita itu dalam laknat oleh malaikat ke pagi. 13. Wanita-wanita yang menggunakan lidahnya untuk menyakiti hati suaminya, ia akan mendapat laknat dan kemurkaan Allah, laknat malaikat juga laknat manusia sekalian. 14. Tidak harus seseorang manusia sujud kepada manusia dan jika diharuskan, maka akan aku perintahkan semua kaum wanita sujud pada suaminya kerana membesarkan dan memuliakan hak-hak suami mereka. 15. Wanita yang menyakiti hati suaminya dengan lidahnya pada hari Qiamat nanti Allah jadikan lidahnya sepanjang 70 hasta kemudian diikat kebelakang tengkoknya. 16. "Aku lihat api neraka, tidak pernah aku lihat seperti hari ini, kerana ada pemandangan yang dahsyat di dalamnya. Telah aku saksikan kebanyakkan ahli neraka ialah wanita." Rasulullah s. a. w. ditanyai, "Mengapa demikian Ya Rasulullah?" Jawab Rasulullah s. a. w. "Wanita mengkufurkan suaminya dan mengkufurkan ehsannya. Jika engkau berbuat baik kepadanya seberapa banyak pun dia masih belum rasa berpuas hati dan cukup." 17. "Kebanyakkan ahli neraka adalah terdiri dari kaum wanita." Maka menangislah mereka dan bertanya salah seorang daripada mereka, "Mengapa terjadi demikian, adakah kerana mereka berzina atau membunuh anak atau kafir ?" Jawab Nabi s. a. w. "Tidak, mereka ini ialah mereka yang tidak bersyukur akan nikmat suaminya, sesungguhnya tiap-tiap seorang kamu adalah dalam nikmat suaminya." 18. Keadaan wanita 10 kali ganda seorang lelaki di dalam neraka dan 2 kali ganda seorang lelaki di dalam syurga. 19. "Kebanyakkan wanita itu adalah isi neraka dan kayu api." Hazrat Aishah bertanya, "Mengapa wahai Rasulullah s. a. w.?" Jawab Rasulullah s. a. w. : i. Kerana kebanyakan perempuan itu tidak sabar dalam menghadapi kesusahan, kesakitan dan cubaan seperti kesakitan melahirkan anak, mendidik anak-anak dan melayani suami serta melakukan kerja-kerja rumah. ii. Tiada memuji (bersyukur) di atas kemurahan Allah yang didatangkan melalui suaminya. (Jarang terdapat orang perempuan yang mahu mengucapkan terima kasih di atas pemberian suaminya.) iii Sering mengkufurkan (engkar) terhadap nikmat Allah. (Contohnya :Apabila berlaku sesuatu pertengkaran ada isteri yang berkata sudah 10 tahun kahwin dengan awak tidak ada apa-apapun.) iv Gemar bercakap perkara yang sia-sia yang berdosa. (Contohnya :bercakap mengenai perabot-perabot rumah yang tidak perlu dan mengumpat.) v Kurang akal dan kurang ilmu pengetahuannya dalam agama iaitu mereka sering tertipu atau terpengaruh dengan pujuk rayu lelaki, rakan- rakan, alam sekeliling dan suasana serta kemewahan lahiriah. 20. Dari Ali bin Abi Talib r. a. : Aku dengar Rasulullah s. a. w. bersabda, " Tiga golongan dari umatku akan mengisi nereka jahanam selama 7 kali umur dunia. Mereka itu adalah :- a. Orang yang gemuk tapi kurus b. Orang yang berpakaian tetapi telanjang c. Orang yang alim tapi jahil * Adapun yang gemuk tapi kurus itu ialah wanita yang sihat tubuh badannya tetapi kurang ibadat. * Orang yang berpakaian tetapi telanjang ialah wanita yang cukup pakaiannya tetapi tidak taat agama. * Orang yang alim tapi jahil ialah ulamak yang menghalalkan yang haram kerana kepentingan peribadi. 21. Asma' binti Kharizah Fazari r. ha. diriwayatkan telah berkata kepada puterinya pada hari perkahwinan anaknya itu, "Wahai anakku, kini engkau akan keluar dari sarang di mana engkau dibesarkan. Engkau akan berpindah ke sebuah rumah dan hamparan yang belum engkau kenali. Itulah suami mu. Jadilah engkau tanah bagi suami mu (taat perintahnya) dan ia akan menjadi langit bagi mu (tempat bernaung). Jadilah engkau sebagai lantai supaya ia dapat menjadi tiangnya. Jangan engkau bebani dia dengan berbagai kesukaran kerana itu akan memungkinkan ia meninggalkan mu. Kalau ia mendekatimu, dekatilah ia dan jika ia menjauhi mu maka jauhilah ia dengan baik. Peliharalah benar-benar suami mu itu akan hidungnya, pendengarannya, matanya dan lain-lain. Janganlah pula ia mendengar melainkan yang enak dan janganlah ia melihat melainkan yang indah sahaja pada dirimu. 22. Pesanan Luqman kepada anaknya, "Sepanjang hidupku, aku hanya memilih 8 kalimah dari pusaka para Nabi yang lalu iaitu :- a. Apabila engkau sedang solat kepada Allah s. w. t. maka jagalah baik- baik fikiran mu. b. Apabila engkau berada di rumah orang lain, maka jagailah pandangan mu. c. Apabila engkau berada di tengah-tengah majlis maka jagalah lidah mu. d. Apabila engkau hadir dalam jamuan makan maka jagalah perangai mu. e. Ingat kepada Allah s. w. t. f. Lupakan budi baik mu pada orang lain. g. Lupakan semua kesalahan orang lain terhadapmu. h. Ingat kepada mati 23. Perkara-perkara yang menjadikan wanita itu derhaka kepada suaminya seperti tersebut di dalam kitab Muhimmah :- a. Menghalang suami dari bersuka-suka dengan dirinya samada untuk jimak atau menyentuh mana-mana bahagian tubuhnya. b. Keluar rumah tanpa izin suami samada ketika suami ada di rumah atau pun tidak. c. Keluar rumah kerana belajar ilmu yang bukan ilmu Fardhu Ain. Dibolehkan keluar untuk belajar ilmu Fardhu Ain jika suaminya tidak mampu mengajar. d. Enggan berpindah (berhijrah) bersama suaminya. e. Mengunci pintu, tidak membenarkan suami masuk ke rumah ketika suami ingin masuk. f. Bermasam muka ketika berhadapan dengan suami. g. Minta talak. h. Berpaling atau membelakangi suami ketika bercakap. i. Menyakiti hati suami samada dengan perkataan atau perbuatan. j. Meninggalkan tempat tidur tanpa izin. k. Membenarkan orang lain masuk ke dalam rumah sedangkan ia tidak disukai oleh suaminya. 24. Wajib bagi wanita :- a. Mengekalkan malu pada suaminya. b. Merendahkan (menundukkan) mata ketika berpandangan. c. Mengikut kata-kata dan suruhannya. d. Dengar dan diam ketika suami berkata-kata. e. Berdiri menyambut kedatangannya. f. Berdiri menghantar pemergiannya. g. Hadir bersamanya ketika masuk tidur. h. Memakai bau-bauan yang harum untuk suaminya. i. Membersihkan dan menghilangkan bau mulut untuk suaminya. j. Berhias ketika hadirnya dan tinggalkan hiasan ketika tiadanya. k. Tiada khianat ketika tiada suaminya. l. Memuliakan keluarga suaminya. m. Memandang pemberian suaminya yang kecil sebagai besar dan berharga. n. Ketahuilah, syurga dan neraka bagi seorang wanita itu bergantung pada redha atau tidaknya suami padanya. Ada 6 pesanan untuk kaum wanita dapat diamalkan di dalam kehidupan seharian untuk hidupkan suasana Iman dan Amal di dalam rumahtangga. Apabila ada suasana agama dalam kehidupan maka hidayat dan nusrah (pertolongan) dari Allah akan datang. Rumahtangga dirahmati Allah, keberkatan dalam kehidupan kita dan ketenangan dalam jiwa kita. 6 pesanan itu adalah amalan nurani. Amalan itu ialah :- 1. Solat di awal waktu dan galakkan kaum lelaki yang mahram bersolat ditempat di mana azan dilaungkan iaitu di masjid atau di surau. 2. Istiqamah membaca Al-Quran dan berzikir. - Hak Al-Quran hendaklahkhatam2X setahun. Jadi lapangkan tiap-tiap hari untuk membacanya. Disamping ituhendaklah kita mengingati Allah dalam apa keadaan kita sekalipun dan dimana kita berada. Dengan melihat setiap ciptaan Allah kita dapatmengingati Allah s. w. t. Maka dianjurkan supaya dapat kita melapangkan waktu pagi (lepas subuh) dan petang hari (lepas Asar) untuk mewiridkan kalimah-kalimah tasbih, tahmid, tahlil dan takbir ie "Subhanallah Walhamdulillah Wala ilaha illallah Wallahu Akbar" jika mampu boleh di sambung "Wa la hawlawalaquwataillabillahi'aliyil'azim" 100X. Selawat ke atas Nabi 100X dan beristighfar 100X. Selain daripada itu amalkanlah doa-doa masnun - doa yang diucapkan ketika melakukan sesuatu perbuatan ie masa hendak makan, tidur, masuk dan keluar tandas dsb. 3. Istiqamah menghidupkan Takleem dan Taklum (belajar dan mengajar ilmu agama). - Lapangkanlah masa yang sesuai walau seketika supaya semua ahli keluarga dapat menghidupkan majlis ilmu ini. Duduklah seperti duduknya kita di dalam solat ie menutup aurat, berkeadaan suci dan berbau wangi. Majlis mempelajari agama ini terbahagi kepada dua iaitu : Pertama - Majlis berkenaan hadis-hadis mengenai kelebihan beramal. Ini adalah untuk menimbulkan keghairahan dalam ahli keluarga untuk beramal. Kedua - Majlis berkenaan masalah-masalah agama (hukum- ahkam dalam ibadat). Wajib suami untuk mengajar anak dan isteri mengenainya. Jika tidak tahu wajib atasnyauntuk belajar. 4. Mendidik anak secara agama dan sunnah. 5. Hidup sederhana. 6. Menggalakkan suami / mahram yang lelaki untuk usaha atas agama dakwah illallah (mengembangkan agama). - Secara Baironi : di luar kampung halaman kita dan Maqami : Di dalam qariah kampung halaman kita. Akhir sekali semoga kita sama-sama dapat mengamalkan 6 pesanan ini dalam rumahtangga kita secara istiqamah dan ikhlas setiap hari. Juga untuk jadi isteri yang beriman dan solehah hendaklah kita taat pada suami. Jika suami redha ke atas kita maka Allah s. w. t. akan redha ke atas kita. Berzikir ,berdoa, beristighfar, membaca Al-Quran dan berselawat adalah amalan-amalan utama yang harus dikekalkan oleh setiap umat islam untuk kesempurnaan Iman dan Islamnya. Semuanya itu menjadi penawar bagi hati dan jiwa yang rusuhdan resah gelisah. _________________ " Hawa diciptakan dari rusuk Adam,bukan dari kepalanya utk dijunjung diatasnya,bukan pula dari kakinya untuk dijadikan alasnya, tetapi disisnya utk dijadikan teman hidupnya,dekat pada lengannya utk dilindungi & dekat dihatinya utk dicintai"" sarinawati_samad@yahoo.com.sg | ::Sarinawati Binte Abdul Samad ::Friday, February 11, 2005 Assalamualaikum .... Hi there! I'm glad to be here! Are you all bridestobe going to the pameran pengantin between 17-20 Feb 05 @ Expo? If yes, anyone interested to go with me? (Hopefully yes. Maybe we can share tips and ideas.) How abt you Diah? How abt the rest? Come on bridestobe ! Be more lively ! | ::90 over ways to still stay in love. ::Friday, February 11, 2005 1.Remember to say "I love you" and "I need you" often. 2.Walk hand in hand in the rain. 3.Write a love poem. 4.Call a radio station and dedicate a favourite song. 5.Write "I Love You" in lipstick or shaving cream on the mirror. 6.Hide love notes in a lunch box, briefcase or purse. 7.Make heart-shaped cinnamon toast for breakfast. 8.Place a love note in the personals section of the newspaper. 9.Take a carriage ride around the city. 10.Plan a surprise getaway. 11.Do your mate's household chores. 12.Write notes on future dates in their date book ("I love you," I miss you," etc.) 13.Make reservations at a favourite restaurant. 14.Let him choose the movie. 15.Give a foot massage. 16.Make a heart-shaped bookmark, and place it in their book. 17.Pop in a romantic music CD and slow dance. 18.Throw a just-because surprise party for two. 19.Buy a stuffed animal for your honey. 20.Read each other's horoscopes. 21.Make a list of the top 10 things you love about your partner. 22.Display it in a prominent place. 23.Make an album or scrapbook of your favourite memories together. 24.Go camping together and only take one sleeping bag. 25.Send a mushy message in a bottle...a balloon...a sandwich... 26.Cut out a silly cartoon that you know they'd enjoy. 27.Shower together. 28.Dim the lights, and snuggle together on the couch. 29.Be the first to say "I'm sorry" and kiss and make up. 30.Give each other a full-body massage. 31.Kiss every hour on the hour all day long. 32.Send a gift basket of indulgent items. 33.Write "I'm hot for you" in the steam on the bathroom mirror. 34.Ribbon wrap your bed with a big bow. 35.Fill up the fuel of your partner's car/bike without telling him. 36.Act like teenagers. Maybe even pierce something! 37.Show up with a bouquet of flowers -- for no reason at all. 38.Play Scrabble® together, using as many "love" words as you can. 39.Run a warm bubble bath for your partner, with lots of lit candles. 40.Meet in the park for a picnic. 41.Hold hands. 42.Leave a trail of rose petals through the house, leading to a romantic candlelight dinner. 43.Make a donation in your mate's name to a special cause or charity. 44.Pick up their clothes from the floor -- without saying a word about it. 45.Watch an old black and white romantic movie and share a bowl of popcorn. 46.Re-enact your first date. 47.Surprise your partner with tickets to a special event. 48.An unexpected hug can brighten any day. 49.Buy a silly, impromptu gift. 50.Send an email just to say "I'm thinking of you." 51.Bring home a balloon bouquet. Serve breakfast in bed. 52.Wash and wax your partner's car, and leave a little note on the dashboard. 53.Plant a garden together. 54.Leave a mushy message on voicemail. 55.Stay at a hotel for the night, just because. 56.Every time you say "hello" or "goodbye", seal it with a hug and a kiss. 57.Take a drive in the country. 58.Spend the evening looking at the stars -- and make a wish together. 59.Cast a playful wink any time, anywhere. 60.Think up a list of silly little pet names for times when you're alone together. 61.Read poetry to each other. 62.Celebrate your half-birthdays together. 63.Put a picture of both of you in your wallet. 64.Buy that favourite book or CD for no reason at all. 65.Send a care package to his work place filled with treats like food, photos, candy, a love note, heart-shaped confetti, etc. 66.Go out for the evening and tell people you're on your honeymoon. 67.Write a thank you note for all the things you take for granted. 68.Tape your favourite TV show and spend the evening talking. 69.Do the dishes together, then apply hand lotion to each other's hands. 70.Write a love letter to your partner and cut it into jigsaw puzzle pieces. 71.Decide on secret signals and use them to communicate with each other in large groups of people. 72.Schedule a regular mid-week "date night" for just the two of you. 73.Do the laundry together. 74.Romance Theatre Weekend: re-enact each other's favourite love scene - hers on Friday, his on Saturday. 75.Call your partner at work and ask for a date. 76.Pretend you haven't seen each other for a month. Act accordingly. 77.Send a written invitation to do something special. 78.Take turns reading to each other. Stand outside the window and sing a romantic song. 79.Hide favourite candy in your partner's coat pockets. 80.Put a tape recording of your voice (saying anything) in the car stereo and turn it on so it plays when the car starts. 81.Go to a drive-in movie. 82.Get up to turn off the last light after you're both comfy-cosy in bed. 83.Hold each other tight during a thunderstorm. 84.Make a tape recording of favourite love songs. 85.Leave a bunch of bananas on the kitchen table with a note, "I go bananas over you!" 86.Hide love notes in a magazine. 87.Declare your undying love via email. 88.Make a romantic dinner together, and serve it on your finest china. 89.Surprise your partner with a big kiss on the neck. 90.Give unexpected compliments. 91.Share an ice cream cone. 92.Have a picnic on the living room floor. 93.Draw a silly picture of the two of you. Frame it. | ::Diah.. ::Friday, February 11, 2005 Makciks, I see you guys are having a bit of problem trying to create an entry here. Its simple actually. Pfft. LIke what I ve already said, first you log in to http://pitas.com and then you type in the username and password. Then click on 'Add an entry'. Now, once you are at 'Add an entry' page, what you have to do is type whatever you want to type in the 'entry' box. Yes, I do mean whatever. Oh, and since we will very much like to know who you are, put your name in the 'pagename' box. After which, click 'done!' and thats about it, really. Come on, I dont want to be the only one creating entries all the time, man! Don't be so bacin okay! So please do give it a try. Then slowly I can teach you guys how to go about putting pictures in this blog. :) So Dila, give it actually what. I see your 'hi halo' entry here. Tapi lain kali type more ler. :) Oh Dila was mentioning about meeting up for a cup of coffee of something? So how? And does anyone know when is the WEDDING EXPO? | ::dila141 ::Thursday, February 10, 2005 Members.... how are you? | ::Pictures... ::Wednesday, February 9, 2005 Ah amik korang... Gambar minah minah bohsia. :) | ::Hellooo.... ::Wednesday, February 9, 2005 So girls, here we go. This is the place where we will share, gossip and stuff. So what are you guys waiting for? :: Diah :: |